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Parent biggest fear: Losing a son of Humberto Heath

The titles of the recent kidnapping of 21 South Korean missionaries

Afghanistan has caused shock and outrage in many parts of the world.

The killing of two missionaries who were part of this group

increased tension in South Korea. But the most disturbing scene

I had this accident was the video of the parents who complain

pleaded for the lives of their children, who were captured by

The Taliban. A Korean mother also asked to be taken by the Taliban

Instead of his daughter. Such is the love of a father to a child.

The message also stressed that there is no fear that

haunts all parents more than the possibility of losing a child. The case

a missing child or missing, at least offers the opportunity to

Meeting. But the death of a child has a specific purpose, a

point of no return. Moreover, the death of a child by the parent company is

regarded as an anomaly, a tragic event and totally unnatural.

Independent thinking of country or culture, parents are

must die before their children.

All parents, at some point in life, would think of death and the date

when they finally leave their children. It is a painful thought

No parent would dare, except perhaps when you are out in earnest

Patients or older. But what causes stress and anxiety more

is the thought of losing a child.

Parents usually feel fully responsible for the collection

their children go to work, to raise funds for the Centre

Food, shelter, clothing and education costs. Beyond the material things

Parents also take seriously their role as first teachers

Children. Before dying, want to see their children finish school,

and, if possible, get married, and a family. This,

Most of the parents is the natural law and the human life cycle.

The loss of a child during pregnancy or childbirth in a ....

Accident ... in war ... or because of a violent crime ... All these tragic

Events causing unspeakable pain and depression not only for parents but for

the rest of the family. Seeing a child who died, a scene that causes profound

emotional pain that can scar for life. The pain of losing a

loved one, especially a small child can compromise a parent

even temporarily lose the ability to think rationally. With the loss of

Loss of appetite and insomnia, a grieving father also lose interest

relationship with other people, including his family. The

Depression takes over completely the life of a mother or a father in mourning

physically and emotionally debilitating.

During the funeral, trying to give most people a few words of grieving father

Breath. But these words often can not be done and doing

difficult for them. Some might even say: "Nothing happened ... is death

Part of life "or" Everything will be alright. At least the child is

the sky. "These words hurt more often to add more convenience to

grieving parents. For this reason, it is important to understand that

grieving parents or have lost a loved one suffers from a duel

Process. This process involves the following stages: denial, sadness and

Depression, anger and acceptance. A father who learns

The death of a child is full of hits. This is followed by

Denial - it provides a psychological defense mechanism to block

sad news of the death of a child. After his father is capable of

I realize that the child is really dead, the next series of emotions

be sadness and depression. At this stage, parents

Usually remember the moments spent with the child by the time ---

the baby is born, birthdays, holidays and other happy

Memories. These thoughts tend to deepen the sadness and depression

Parents. In some cases, depression may be so severe that a

grieving parents can give prescriptions for antidepressants. After

Some time can be adjusted and anger is also possible for the bereaved

Parents make God responsible for the death of the child. After this stage

Rabies, which is the most important moment of the deepest emotional stress

Process, the father finally accept the situation and death

the child.

It will take time, but emotional healing is finally reached.

Length, which is necessary for emotional healing depends of course on

Ability and willingness of parents. Some people find it hard to let go, while

Others are in a position forward in the emotional and spiritual

Stability.

In fact, there are no words to comfort a parent who has just lost

Child. It takes time to overcome a lot of prayer and acceptance

the death of a son or daughter. Indeed, a parent is never really

The death of a child. Passing the baby will not be forgotten, but

accept death as an inevitable part of life ---

retain the best and most beautiful memories they had together, even if the

Child has passed and the father is still alive.